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Let’s dispel a common misconception: According to the latest Pornhub statistics, everyone likes porn, especially women.
On average, they spend about ten minutes of their time there, which is double the average amount of time men spend on the site.
Thanks to the internet, which has made access to pornographic material easier and more discreet than ever before, women no longer feel shame for viewing pornographic material.
This was perhaps one of the last sexual taboos still standing. For men, on the other hand, porn is now an essential element in sexual health and well-being.
For a long time, this only held true for men. However, today, I will discuss how this is fast becoming a reality for women and couples as well.
This is porn reimagined. However, not in the way it’s produced, but in the way it is utilized. The goal is not to have porn be a substitute sex, or for women who are sexually frustrated in one form or another. Rather, it is a tool for women and couples to explore their fantasies which will considerably improve their sexual relationships.
By watching porn, you will be more satisfied. You will be more aware of your inclinations and more open with your sexuality. You will develop a higher libido and a truer, more intense desire towards your partner, giving an extra gear to the happiness of a couple under the sheets.
In short, it is the missing piece to a complete sexual experience. To truly get the most out it however, porn must be understood as a stimulus to fantasy. That understanding will help not only to improve one’s sex life but also helps build upon it creating a whole new level of intimacy.
Furthermore, from an emotional and psychological point of view, it can be used to overcome one’s mental blocks mainly due the fear of making mistakes. Other hurdles include one’s guilt, morals, and the fear of letting go and trying something new.
The occasional use of porn not only encourages sexual curiosity but also leads to a more positive and playful attitude toward sex. It can lead to trying new positions or perhaps discovering a new kink or fetish that one never knew they had. On the other hand, over dependence of the porn can actually deteriorate a sexual relationship.
That is, one loses the ability to truly connect with their partner.
There is a however, a fine line between enjoying porn and being addicted to it. It can be a fun and useful tool that takes your pleasure to the next level when used occasionally. For example, using it to add a little spice to love making.
It can serve to increase one’s fantasies which explains why men who watch hard videos are more attracted to their partners. This is true of women as well. If, however, the use of porn becomes the only possible way to achieve sexual gratification, then the line has been crossed from game to addiction.
In order to avoid this, porn is best used as an enhancer for sex rather than a substitute as mentioned earlier.
A kiss from your lovely Bella x
One Response
Im curious when i watch a porn. Maybe I can learn something of new..maybe i simply spend 6/7 minutes of my day thinking only to cum on my smartphone. With thousands possibilites to find sites of every gender, i can search everything i want.
Thx for the post Bella